Adieu, 2010 and HELLO 2011!!

I don't know about you, but 2010 was definitely a testing year for many people.

But as the year is coming to an end this week, I can't help but be thankful for great life lessons I learned this year. As we approach 2011, I personally feel motivated and excited for the wonderful things to come.

I want to send lots of positive energy to all my readers, and remember to be grateful and I am sending you lots of L.O.V.E.!

Must-See Movies!

I am a big movie buff. If you know me well, you already know that I enjoy watching all types of movies, especially independent movies.

I wanted to briefly write about this good movie I watched a few days ago called "The Jonese" It stars Demi Moore and David Dochovny.

It illustrates very well the downfall of American consumerism, and how keeping up with the Joneses essentially makes everyone miserable because people's greed does not stop. Ambition is good but greed isn't. Living beyond one's means makes one miserable. I think the key to happiness is not comparing but rather being content with what you have.

I highly recommend it.

I am dying to see "Morning Glory" next week since it stars Rachel McAdams as the twenty-something career woman! I will be sure to write a quick review!

Here is a short list of movies I personally recommend:

1. The Joneses
2. Wall Street 2
3. The Grown-ups (classic Adam Sandler films)
4. The Visitor
5. Morning Glory (when it comes out)
6. The Black Swan
7. Wonderful Life
8. In Good Company
9. Gran Torino
10. Click

Have fun watching!!

As far as the TV shows go, check out:

1. The Office
2. 30 Rock
3. The Good Wife
4. Chuck
5. Outsourced
6. Undercover Boss
7. Extreme Home Makeover

L.O.V.E.

It's the Election Day!

Have you voted yet?

Today is the Election Day! Regardless of what party you belong to, let's exercise our right as U.S. Citizens and vote!!

Remember, every vote counts! :)

All it takes is one text, email or phone call...

Hi everyone,

Wow, I didn't realize almost two months have passed since I wrote. It's fair to say I've been quite busy and preoccupied with other things. Seems that this year is definitely proving to be one of the most difficult years in my life in many ways. I guess when it rains, it pours. I would say at this point, it can even be considered a flood.

Regardless, I believe in keeping positive and strong. When life throws punches, you can only take them so long until you have to punch back.

I've been talking to my friends a lot lately, and I wanted to write about something the importance of responsiveness.

It seems that people and companies do not realize how important being responsive is to others waiting to hear back.

With all the technology we have at the tip of our fingertips, there is no excuse not to respond to people. For example, unless you are so busy running the marathon or something, there is NO excuse not to respond to phone calls, emails and texts.

When my family and friends send me a text, for instance, I make sure I respond right away. Sometimes, calling someone back can mean a lot to that person. All people need is a response. It can be a positive or negative response, but I think NO RESPONSE is WORSE than a negative response.

This is especially true for companies and how they treat their candidates. I respect those who always take time to let the candidates know whether or not they have been selected for the job. Especially in this tough economy, it's important that job seekers are notified about their decision process. No response can often lead to anxiety, fear and frustration. It takes 30 seconds to write an email to say "Sorry, we are not going to hire you". I think that's what candidates deserve to hear and know. I don't think candidates expect more. Companies don't even have to send a letter in the mail or call. Write a simple email to let them know whether they got the job or not.

I think it's easier for candidates to move on if they know what's going on. Bad news is OK as long as it is delivered.

The same is true for friends. NO ONE is that busy that they can't call back or text a friend back. I realized that sometimes my friends can be going through extremely tough times, and it means a lot to just say "look, I am here for you. You can talk to me and I am here to listen". That can prevent someone from falling into deep despair or depression. People need support and human interaction.

The lesson of the day: PLEASE TAKE JUST A FEW MINUTES OF YOUR TIME, EVEN SECONDS, TO RESPOND!

Thank you. I am sure people waiting for you would appreciate that.

Marking the Unofficial End of the Summer...

The Labor Day weekend unofficially marks the end of the summer, and strangely enough, the week started out rather gloomy with the sun barely showing itself.

I got to think about any eventful memories I've made this particular summer. How about you? Did you take any amazing vacations or trips? BBQ with friends? Perhaps you decided to work all summer with no vacation. OR perhaps you read rather interesting books and saw awesome movies.

Whatever the case may be, I feel that I made the best of what I was given this summer. Granted, it was quite different than previous few summers for several reasons; nonetheless, I got to really spend quality time with my family and friends, which I am so grateful for.

I also got to celebrate the legacy of the legendary artist I admire the most, Michael Jackson. I feel that this year has been rather a lackluster year, but I am a firm believer that what must go up must come down or rather in my case, you can only go up after going down.

Now that we are unofficially welcoming the start of this fall, let's start reflecting on this year and do the things you planned to do before the year is over. After all, we are only three months away from December.

Celebrate your successes and reflect on past failures. In spite of everything, let's continue moving forward.

I read this article on CNN.com today about money and happiness, and found this awesome quote that I want to share:

"Bargain your true needs, celebrate your true loves, and watch your life's true net worth start climbing."

L.O.V.E.

Lucky

I saw a rather interesting documentary called "Lucky" on HBO last night. It's a documentary about several Power Ball Lottery winners and how their lives changed following their major fortune.

It is definitely a major source of envy when out of nowhere someone wins $25 to as much as $170 million by pure luck. And as much as people say lottery winners often end up miserable, this documentary showed that is not quite true. I learned that what determines their new fate is their character.

If they have good character and are generous, hard-working people to begin with, they spend/spent their money wisely; on the other hand, for those who became fearful of their new fortune, they squandered it out of anxiety with no planning for the future.

I kept wondering why people keep playing when the odds of winning are 1 in 185 million... hmmm perhaps we can keep dreaming that one day we will win the lottery and become $100 million dollars richer and do the things we want to do without ever worrying about money.

Thank You for Making Me a Fighter!

How does it feel to be rejected? Well, I say rejections are essential part of our lives that make us rethink, reevaluate, recharge our batteries but in the end make us much stronger and better as people.

I recently came across a book on Amazon.com after reading its review on USA Today. (I know I know... you would say that USA Today is meant to be written for elementary level readers, but I have to say that they do have excellent book reviews)

The book is called "Other People's Rejection Letters: Relationship Enders, Career Killers, and 150 Letters You'll Be Glad You Didn't Receive"

It shows some of the worst and best rejection letters people have received that include some of the most successful people. It's definitely next on my reading list.

I've been learning one of the greatest life lessons so far this year, and what I realized is that I am a much stronger person than I thought I was. Learning from my mistakes and getting even more motivated and not discouraged from rejections is definitely shaping me to be a better professional and a person.

I want to dedicate this particular blog to my friends out there who are struggling with either their career or personal life. Remember that getting rejected from a job or a person is not the end of the world and that it doesn't lower your value but rather, it's their loss. Hold on to your inner strength and remember to never lose your self-confidence.

Hey Mr. Rejection - Thank you for making me a fighter! I will keep moving forward and you can't stop me, EVER!

L.O.V.E.

In Case You Missed It...

I've read some great articles on the latest social media trends and developments and thought I would share them with you!

* Facebook movie? Check out the newly release trailer for "The Social Network"

* The Old Spice Social Media Campaign Success Story!

*Listen up all musicians out there! Use this site to market yourself or your band!

Have fun reading!!

Anime Nerd!

Hi everyone,

Been awhile since I last posted something. I have been quite busy taking care of some business and spending quality time with my close friends.

I wanted to share my newly found love/passion of Japanese anime with you! Coincidentally, there was a major Anime Expo happening at the LA Convention Center this past weekend, and I can't wait to attend next year's dressed up as one of my favorite anime characters.

In a week, I've watched three complete anime tv series. My favorite one is The Rose of Versailles. I grew up watching this anime, and it is by far one of the most successful anime tv series ever and very well done! It is set around the French Revolution era and by mixing real characters with fictional characters, it shows human conflicts and how the two fictional main characters symbolized the eventual fall of the French Monarchy, specifically Marie Antoinette. I've always been fascinated with Marie Antoinette, ever since I was a little kid. I feel she is definitely one of the most misunderstood characters in history and this anime does an excellent job of showing that.

I highly recommend this 40-episode anime. It will definitely keep you at the edge of your seat!

Next two anime series I watched are Emma: Victoria Romance and Fruits Basket. I should say that Emma was calm and rather slow while Fruits Basket was what you expect a traditional anime to look like. Nonetheless, I enjoyed them both equally.

I am exploring more anime shows to watch, and I am open to your suggestions!

I am also happy and proud to say I've officially become an anime nerd. :)

Remembering Michael Jackson, The Undisputed King of Music, 1958 - 2009 (FOREVER)

Tomorrow, June 25th, 2010 marks the one-year anniversary of Michael Jackson's passing.

Michael Jackson is the world's most famious cultural icon, who is the greatest entertainer the world has ever seen and is the most talented musical genius in history.

The title Dame Elizabeth Taylor dubbed him, King of Pop, doesn't do him justice, which is why I prefer to call him the King of Music. He was the ultimate singer, songwriter and dancer. What most people don't realize is that Michael Jackson wrote almost all of his hundreds of songs out there. He was also a poet.

Dancers respect and love him.
Musicians respect and love him.
Songwriters/producers respect and love him.
Fans all over the world in all ages and ethnicities respect and love him.
And I love him.

The tabloid media disgustingly tried to bring him down and made up vicious lies to take people's attention away from his genius talent, but true fans, such as myself, understand that at the end of the day, Michael Jackson was and will always be remembered for what he gave to the world.

He gave us beautiful music that we can enjoy and relate to in all aspects of our everyday lives. He showed us what true L.O.V.E. is. He gave to the needy and over 200 charities without making his humanitarian efforts public. He spread peace and love through his music and he cared so much about the nature and environment that he wrote poems and songs around preserving the environment. He showed us how mesmerizing dancing can be with his moonwalking. He allowed underprivileged students to pursue higher education by giving scholarships. He saved sick children's lives. He gave joy and laughter to sick kids and orphans around the world and provided them with things they needed.

Michael Jackson symbolized love.
Michael Jackson symbolized kindness.
Michael Jackson symbolized greatest.

I really hope that the media and ignorant people out there stop believing all the vicious lies that are written about him and realize for once and for all that he touched many people's lives.

I am not going to address any scandals or lies in this blog entry simply because they are not true. The tabloid media made everything up in order to sell papers without respecting his privacy and his family.

Michael Jackson's music will always stay in history. His iconic music videos will always be remembered. He was also an amazing fashion icon! His style and influence will live for centuries to come.

For me, Michael Jackson has helped me get through the toughest times in my life. I know exactly what songs to listen to when I am feeling sad, when I need to feel motivated and when I am happy. Every significant moment in my life, I've shared with Michael Jackson through his music.

He truly inspires me to be a better person, spread positive energy and love.

He was all about LOVE. I strongly believe people will begin to see what a kind person he was and stop buying into the tabloid media.

He was innocent of the 1993 accusation and 2005 accusation and that was proven through our justice system and by the people involved. No matter how many times the media, conspirators and haters tried to bring him down, he was invincible.

I feel Michael Jackson was a victim of hatred and injustice because he was greater than great. Never in history had we seen such a true genius! Think about it. He was not ordinary - he was extraordinary! You ask any musician out there, and they have all been inspired by Michael Jackson.

Please respect his legacy and let's focus on his music, his talent and his contributions to our world as the greatest entertainer and humanitarian in history.

I will be visiting his burial site at Forest Lawn in Glendale to pay my respects on 6/25/2010. I hope that you find your own way to celebrate him whether it be blasting his music all day, watching his music videos or sporting your favorite MJ shirt.

Michael Jackson will live forever, especially in my heart and in the hearts of the fans around the world.

Thank you, MJ, for giving us wonderful music to enjoy for life and for showing us kindness and love.

L.O.V.E.

Age is just a number...

I've been thinking a lot about age. It's funny when people ask how old I am because they are all coming from different places and have different reasons for asking me for my age.

One may be asking out of genuine curiosity while another may be asking to see what my experience level is. Most say I don't act my age saying I carry many responsibilities and act very professionally for someone my age. I take it as a compliment but perhaps it can be an insult?

20 somethings often get a bad rep for being entitled, immature and aggressive, but I don't agree with that. I have actually seen people much older acting exactly like 18 year olds. That makes me think that age truly is subjective and is just a number.

You can be 25 but have the world of life experiences that perhaps someone who is 40 may never had. Some 20 somethings are immature and annoying but there are some of us who do take our career and life very seriously and act responsibly.

I have met many people much older than I who have never been anywhere in their lives. They never traveled the world, some of them gossip and act like they are in high school and some have zero cultural experience. I don't think it's so much that being older automatically makes you wiser, I think it is all about the experiences you've had in your life.

I have personally come across many young people who have been through so much that many adults can't begin to imagine. I think it's time that we stop judging people based on age and respect the life experiences they have had.

I've heard that perhaps I should be less responsible and have more fun and make mistakes since that's what I am "supposed to do" but I refuse. I think it's okay to not be a typical 20 something and act like myself.

So next time someone assumes I am much older, I know it's a compliment!

Age is subjective, your life experiences speak more about who you are as a person than how old you are.

What happened to people's manners?

One thing I don't approve of as a person and as a professional is bad manners, and I am sure most of you have had your share of rude people in your personal and business life.

I came across this interesting forum and thought I would share it. Being polite isn't hard so let's practice being courteous to each other. After all, niceness gets you far in this world.

RUDE!

You may be rude if you...

1) Roll your eyes when people are asking you questions or talking to you
2) Interrogate your candidates instead of listening
3) Interrupt people often without listening to the whole story
4) Do not look at people in the eyes when they are talking to you
5) Sigh a LOT during interviews, meetings and conferences

Common courtesy...

Finding happiness in simple things in life :D

HAPPY WEEKEND, everyone!

Gosh, it feels like I just wrote yesterday, but it's been almost three weeks since I wrote! Been extremely busy so hope you've all been very well :)

I am in a fantastic mood today, which is explained by the fact that I slept in, ate junk food and spent the afternoon watching "Alice in Wonderland" and reading one of my favorite author, Jen Lancaster's new book. Yes, that is my perfect Saturday afternoon!

I wanted to write about being happy today. There has been so many books out in the market about finding happiness and what makes people happy. People all over the world want to be happy, but I find that happiness is definitely subjective and depends on people.

Though many people believe money brings them happiness, it is not entirely true. Granted, not having to worry about money rocks (and endless shopping sprees, I am sure), but money brings more problems and worries for more people than you would ever imagine.

Not to get completely rough here, but Tupac always said "more money, more drama".

Being smart about money (finances) and having enough to do the things you want to do in life would make you happy, however.

Also I think health is very important. You can be the richest person in the whole world, but if you aren't healthy, what's the point? Health is something we can control to a great extent with a good diet and exercise regime.

I know I am young, but I feel that sometimes I am a much older person trapped in a body of a young person (which I am not complaining about, by the way LOL). What I mean is that I feel I am not like most twentysomethings, and here's why:

1. I got a house = mortgage I pay
2. I've always had to be responsible for myself and my family and I can't and won't make decisions that only benefit myself. It doesn't work that way.
3. I've learned so much about people in general and as a result have learned to read people extremely well, which most people around my age suck at, basically.

And on top of that, I would rather be spending quality time with people I truly care about on my free time rather than being out clubbing or hanging out with fake people trying to get them to like me.

I don't compromise who I am just so people would like me. Why? Because even if you are the nicest, kindest person in the world, chances are there will be at least one person who won't like you and that's just the reality, not your fault.

I think people who love me appreciate me for who I am, and that's what I love. It's sad to spend your life trying to be liked when it's better to be respected. :)

Be loyal to your true friends and family. Do NOT spend your time trying to have many friends who don't care about you and only call you to party. It is a waste of time.

Ok, I am digressing.

Back to finding happiness...

So I am realizing more and more that it's not hard to feel happy. I mean, there will always be factors in life that will get in the way. Life will always throw punches, and it is up to you whether you want to keep taking the punches or hit back, and I am telling you that in order to be happy, you have to keep fighting and find happiness in simple things in life.

I want you to take time to think about the moments when you feel happy. You may be surprised to find that it is not when you bought your $600 shoes or when you went to a fancy party. In fact, last time you felt happy was probably talking to one of your best friends and laughing your butt off talking about silly stuff.

I want to share with you what makes me happy or rather, times when I feel happy and grateful for my life :)

* My Lazy weekends = honestly, I have so much respect for people who choose to get up at 7 am on the weekends to go jogging, hiking and blah, but I would rather be sleeping in, get up around 2 pm and do absolutely nothing but read and watch movies all day while not moving a muscle from my couch.

* Spending quality time with my friends and sharing our stories over a bottle of wine = I am so grateful to have the friends I have. I love each and every one of them. If you know me well, you would know that I am very selective when it comes to allowing people in my life, especially true friends. You can't choose your family, but you sure can choose your friends. I am accepting of everyone, but I only choose to let a very few true friends share my life. You know who you are and I love you. I am fiercely loyal to my true friends.

I love sharing laughter and our life stories together over a good bottle of wine. I can be myself 100%, be silly and totally comfortable. My friends and I don't need to impress each other and we know of each other's flaws and imperfections but those are what make us unique. I feel truly happy when my friends and I are at coffee shops just talking for hours :)

* Spending time with my family = this one does not need any explanation. I love my parents so much and when I am home spending time with them, I am very happy. Dinner is a big deal for us and we talk about everything over dinner. I am also very protective of my family and am willing to make sacrifices to make them happy.

* MY DOG = She means so much to me, and I learn to be humble from her. Dogs get so happy about little things, and I honestly learn so much from that.

* Coffee = Drinking coffee and eating exquisite pastries rocks!

* Reading or watching my favorite TV shows = yep, this one pretty much makes me seem like a lazy bum, but it's true. After a hectic work week, catching up on my fav shows or reading new books I've bought is awesome!

* Michael Jackson's music & short films = Listening to THE GENIUS... the beautiful music he created literally puts a smile on my face. Next time you see a young woman smiling like a lunatic in a car, that's probably me!

* Gratitude = Take a look around. I am so grateful for the things I have, and being grateful for everything makes me happy in return.

There are many more things that truly make me happy, but for now, I am going to share the ones above. Let's be positive and be happy.

Learn to let things go and also, do not get worked up about what people say about you or try to keep up with others. Be yourself.

Ever since I decided not to compromise who I am for people, I've become a happier person.

What makes you happy? I want you to think about what moments make you happy, and start living your life being more grateful. I know it sounds cheesy, but it does change your outlook on life.

L.O.V.E.

Kell on Earth on Bravo

Happy weekend, everyone!

I decided to have a nice, relaxing weekend this time by staying in all weekend long and catching up on my favorite shows. I also got some new books to read so hopefully I get a chance to read at least one this weekend...

I caught up on missed episodes of Chuck, 30 rock and The Office. I would highly recommend these shows to you! They are so culturally and socially relevant and help you destress after long days at work.

Today, I decided to buy the whole Season 1 of Bravo's reality show on Kelly Cutrone, the no-nonsense, successful Fashion PR guru, Kell on Earth! I knew I would like the series since I am a PR professional myself and love fashion!

I sat down on my couch and did not move for hours and sat through the entire 8 episodes of Season 1. The show is really captivating as it shows you the hard-working, unglamorous side of fashion PR and marketing. I absolutely love Kelly Cutrone's direct attitude! In fact, I purchase her book, "If You Have to Cry, Go Outside" because it's a great, mentoring book for young professionals. She is tough but she gets things done! No sensitivity and personal feelings should be allowed at work, and she makes it very clear at her company, People's Revolution.

At the same time, she takes care of her employees, maintains loyal relationships with her clients and loves her work. I respect successful women like Kelly Cutrone who doesn't tolerate excuses from people and tells it like it is. I am a firm believer of leaving personal feelings at work because it's strictly business, nothing personal. Often times, some professionals get too sensitive or get personal feelings involved, but business sometimes does not tolerate such emotions. You have to be tough to get things done, and I absolutely enjoyed watching her show on Bravo.

For all the young women out there, this is the show you should watch! Stupidity and incompetence are NOT allowed at People's Revolution, and I love seeing power women!

Bravo also has The Rachel Zoe Project, which I also recommend. It is important for women to learn from other successful, career women and see what it takes to succeed while not losing oneself.

I certainly enjoyed my Kell on Earth marathon today, and am sure you would too!

Quality vs. Quantity

I had one of the most successful, fabulous shopping sprees this weekend at the Desert Hills Premium Outlet stores in Cabazon, CA.

It was part of my birthday celebration, and I had a blast!

All the stores had amazing sales, and the bargain prices were just unbelievable. My favorite stores are BCBG, Banana Republic (LOVE THIS STORE!), J. Crew, Saks outlet (Off the 5th), Coach and Nine West at that particular outlet. I love good quality clothes and shoes at bargain prices. I am a true believer in investing in quality over quantity.

As a young professional, I think it's crucial for career women to dress chic. I think when you look your very best, your confidence level goes up tremendously; therefore, you can actually be even more productive and confident during important meetings and presentations. I've talked to a lot of women who felt the same.

In my previous blog posts, I've recommended the best stores to get the best quality clothes at bargain prices. I do like shopping at Forever21, Urban, Zara and H&M for casual, trendy items, but I think for work clothes or maybe even for most of your wardrobe, it's worth going to quality designer outlet stores.

Banana Republic, by far, has the best blouses, pants, especially for a petite person like me. Saks outlet and BCBG have sophisticated, chic designer clothes, and you don't have to pay the full price to get the top designer pieces.

I live by the philosophy that it's better to have one quality designer bag over 10 lesser quality bags. Check out the annual Barneys and Saks sales around November and December and you can invest in beautiful Marc Jacobs and Prada bags, which are very versatile.

I bought almost a year's worth of wardrobe that I need and I did not spend much money at all. Nine West store had amazing sales for classic work stilettos, flats and sexy shoes. Banana and BCBG have beautiful blouses, dresses, and much more for work and for weekends.

I enjoy shopping but with a specific purpose. I recommend you make a shopping list of all the things you need and find out which stores best fit your body type and have all the items you need. I was a woman on a mission yesterday at the outlet, and I got everything I needed on my shopping list.

Listen up, all the beautiful women out there! Save your money and go buy quality pieces because cheap fabric does show itself to be cheap and it's better to have one pair of great Manolo Blahniks than 20 Payless shoes. I don't think many women realize how cheap things can be at the outlet stores. Do NOT be intimidated by the brand name stores. Just go in side and you will dicover that it's in fact not scary at all, and you will be able to purchase beautiful pieces at unbelievable prices!!

Remember: Quality will last you for years! It's not about how many shirts, bags, shoes you have, it's about how long they would last. Invest in key pieces and you will have them for a long time to treasure them!

Have fun shopping!

Chic, professional women ROCK!

Hello everyone!

Hello to all my readers!

Sorry I have been MIA, I have had a lot going on. In fact, I still have a lot to sort through, but I realized I haven't written in awhile so I wanted to take some time out tonight and write.

I am a year older now as of this past Friday, and I am excited for many new years ahead!

I also want to say thank you so much for all the well birthday wishes, and I had a fun weekend!

L.O.V.E.

Notable articles from mashable.com

I absolutely love social media! Web 2.0 is here to stay, and I am fascinated to learn new things almost every day from my fellow colleagues and social media industry websites.



Mashable.com is by far one of the best websites out there on all things social media, and I found a few notable articles that I wanted to share with you.

• 140 Reasons Why We Love Twitter
  
• Top 20 Ways to Share a Great Blog Post
  
• How PR Pros Are Using Social Media for Real Results
  
• Social Media Hub: Los Angeles
  
• Twitter

Enjoy!

#justce4mj - Power of Twitter

Happy Friday, everyone!

It's a beautiful, sunny day in Southern California. On days like today, I feel very lucky to live in Los Angeles. :)

It's no secret that I love social media. I specialize in social media marketing/PR, and I am so impressed and amazed when I see successful social media campaigns. I am thrilled to share with you the power of Twitter I experienced last night.

Michael Jackson fans all over the world got together last week and decided to make 3/11, Thursday, the Justice 4 MJ day on Twitter. The plan was to get everyone on Twitter from 7 to 10 pm PST to write about Michael Jackson and make #justice4mj a top trending topic worldwide.

The cause? We wanted to see justice prevail in his case.

I hadn't gotten involved in such a major event before, and frankly, I didn't know what to expect. Surely, Michael Jackson had the largest fan base in the world and a group of extremely loyal fans. What I did not expect is the power of unity for the right cause. That is exactly what I experienced last night.

I got on close to 8 pm, due to having to pick up my dinner to prepare for this event. When I got on, I was starting to get flooded with messages from Twitter users asking where I was. That was fun. I sat down with my food and my laptop on each side and went for it!

MJ fans have established a tight-knit online community, and I am so happy to say I am part of that. I started tweeting away sharing what I love about the man, the music, his contributions and humanitarian efforts.

I didn't even bother chewing my food, which ended up in my having an indigestion, but that's another story...

Then, fans started reporting how we became #1 trending topic in U.S. and Canada already in less than an hour. I kept tweeting away, RTing other worthwhile tweets and having my followers RTing mine as well.

Around 9 pm, Twitter kicked me off. YES, you heard that right. Twitter said I could not post any more status updates saying I've gone over my limit. You can guess how crazy that one hour must have been for me. I had no idea I was tweeting over the limit.

When I was finally able to get back on around 10:30 pm, I discovered that #justice4mj was the worldwide trending topic! MJ fans all over the world came together! Romania, Italy, Japan, Australia, you name it we were united.

I have to say it was quite an emotional experience reading what Michael Jackson meant to each of this fan, and the whole world came together. I also thought it was nice of his brothers to leave us a tweet thanking us, the army of MJ fans.

It's one thing to hear about the power of social media, but when I got to experience it first-hand last night, I realized how much I love what I do.

The whole world came together for #justice4mj cause - if we can do this for Michael Jackson, imagine what possibilities lie ahead for many social causes.

I am so humbled by the experience, and I want to send my love to my online family! Yes, we are family!

Twitter brought unity, harmony and love from all parts of the world, from people of all race/ethnicity, culture, religion and gender for the unified cause of bringing justice - #justice4mj.

Social media is a powerful, effective tool when used for the right cause, and I am happy to say I got to experience that, and I am sure I will continue to see it more and more in the future.

Thanks to social media, you can now make a difference for the cause you believe in with a computer in hand.

For My Fellow Trailblazers ---

More and more women are breaking the glass ceiling and being promoted to be in the "boy's league", and we are seeing more highly successfully professional women kicking butt in Fortune 500 companies.

As a young professional with big career ambitions and goals, I wanted to share some of the websites I enjoy visiting to read about success stories and gain insight into the experiences and lives of many professional women out there.

I strongly believe that women should empower and help each other for the greater goal of succeeding in the corporate world.

For my fellow trailblazers out in Corporate America, I wanted to share these sites for you to read and get inspired!

• Forbes Women Section - A recent article titled, "What Not to Say to a Laid-Off Coworker" is a great read! Another great one is "Networking Survival Tips."

• The Wall Street Journal - Career Section

• Business Week - Career Management - There is a good article titled "Are You Fun to Follow on Twitter?"

• Mashable - If you want to find out the latest news on all things social media related, this is THE site to visit!

• PINK Magazine

ENJOY!

It is the media's responsibility to tell the truth!

I respect true journalists. I greatly admire those that report the truth, even if it goes against the popular belief.

I have great admiration for Geraldo Rivera for telling the truth about Michael Jackson's 2005 trial even thought his network as well his audience were falsely led to believe all the media hype and the popular belief. He never backed down and insisted on reporting nothing but the facts until the very end when he was indeed proven right.

I also recommend Aphrodite Jones's wonderful book titled "Michael Jackson Conspiracy" in which she tells the truth about the 2005 trial. I admire her courage for coming forward and telling the truth after being involved in the media circus during the trial.

Unfortunately, I can't say the same about the majority of the "journalists" out there who have no journalism background what-so-ever, but are on TV because they look the certain part. They simply cut and paste others' reporting and stories rather than analyzing anything and repeat one particular part only to sound smart and credible.


I wonder if it's too much ask that we have journalists who do investigate and who do analyze the subjects and the story thoroughly. I always thought it was their job, but these days, in an effort to be the first ones to break the news, they simply regurgitate what other news outlets are reporting.


I found this wonderful blog post by Charles Thomson who wrote about the media's distorted reporting on its favorite subject/person to "torture"

It's a wonderful, in-depth article on why the media MUST take more responsibility to report the truth and STOP distorting the truth for sensationalism.

I have so much respect for the field of journalism, and I sincerely hope that we shift away from sensationalism and focus on reporting the facts, not opinions. The truth will prevail in the end.

Jackson Power Hour - Joey Cooper

I had the most beautiful experience and conversation last night, but before I get into that, I want to tell you about this amazing class that's available right in our area.

http://www.hypestudios.com/

Hype Studios is located in Torrance, California, and it offers a variety of classes. I was searching for a class that taught Michael Jackson's iconic moves, and after months of searching, I stumbled upon this studio which is the ONLY one that actually has a whole hour dedicated to all Michael & Janet Jackson's original choreography.

The class is called "Jackson Power Hour" and is on Mondays and Wednesdays.

Jackson Power Hour is taught by a wonderful, talented instructor/dancer/choreographer, Joey Cooper.

Initially, I was very intimated at the thought of attending this class because let's face it, Michael and Janet Jackson's moves are beyond this world and super advanced. However, once you step a foot into this class, all your fear and worries are out the door.

Joey Cooper is very warm, friendly and starts each class explaining what the class is all about. He explains to you that the studio initially thought of the class as just using Michael and Janet Jackson's music while learning hip hop or various moves. However, since Joey knows all the original choreography, having learned it from the Jacksons' choreographers themselves or some on his own by studying the music videos and live performances, he actually teaches the original choreography of the two greatest entertainers in the history of music.

The students taking the class aren't necessarily professional dancers, which means everyone is there because they want to learn, they love both Michael & Janet Jackson, and there is no competition whatsoever.

Each class, there is an air of mystery because you won't know until you go that day what choreography you will learn as he randomly picks the songs.

I am personally very familiar with Michael Jackson's music videos and all his dance moves, but I have a little more difficult digesting Janet Jackson's intricate choreography. Occasionally, when I see the choreography we are about to do, I think to myself "oh, it's not going to happen tonight", but to my great astonishment, at the end of each class, I actually do learn it and walk away with this great sense of accomplishment.

Each class is fun, different, unique and as you take more of his classes, you become more confident and accomplished as a person and a dancer.

The students in class can ask questions any time, and the pace of each class is just perfect!

It is truly amazing how Joey manages to teach us such complex yet beautiful choreography in an hour, and everyone in class walking away with something each time.

It is one of my happiest moments as I feel that I can forget all the troubles and escape to the world of Michael & Janet Jackson.

Last night, a fellow student and I had an awesome conversation with Joey Cooper. We thanked him for doing what he does, and how much it means to us.

Michael Jackson was/is all about peace, unity and love. He is recognized all over the world, even in the most remote places, and through his music and dance, we can bring unity among people all over the world, reduce violence and conflicts and together learn his dance moves.

I am so grateful that I get to learn from Joey, and that I am part of this wonderful movement to continue Michael Jackson's legacy through his music and learning his choreography.

I really wanted to share this with you, and I highly recommend you check out this class:

http://www.hypestudios.com/ - click 'schedule' and check out Jackson Power Hour.

"There's a place in your heart, and I know that it is love. And this place could be much brighter than tomorrow...heal the world, make it a better place for you and for me and the entire human race"

85 Degrees Bakery

One of my favorite things to do in life (sounds a bit dramatic, I know) is finding good pastry/bakery places. I know you LA folks know if Urth Caffe and possibly Torrance Cafe, but today, I want to tell you about this one fabulous bakery in Irvine (yes, Orange County).

I know how Angelenos can be reluctant to travel to Orange County, but I guarantee this bakery is definitely worth the drive!

It is located off the 405 S Exit Jamboree on Alton Pkwy. It's very easy to find, except the first time you go, you may be confused and lost in the shopping center since it is surrounded by many restaurants and markets.

85 Degrees is tucked away in the corner, but you can't miss it. The line for the bakery is conspicuously long.

Sometimes, you even have to wait in line twice, once to get the pastries and another to pay for them.

The first thing you do is grab a big tray and a pair of tongs, and from that point on, you can grab as many pastries as you want and crave. No one is rushing so you can take your time looking at each pastry and seeing which ones you want.

They have different types of break ranging from custard muffin to Hawaiian pizza bread. Every pastry is unique and suits different appetites. The breads/pastries aren't too sweet, which allows for seconds and thirds.

The staff is efficient, and while you are waiting in line, the staff will put your pastries in individual wrappers. It's a friendly place, and you are in and out of there quick, if there isn't 20-30 people in line waiting (which happens often).

I highly recommend this fabulous bakery, and please share your experiences!

Keep the Faith! (In non-religious context)

I read the news everyday, and I can't help how depressing the headlines are. Granted, the media is quick to report shocking, bad news in order to sensationalize rather than focusing on good, positive news. Try reading the daily headlines and count how the bad news often outsell the good news. It is no wonder the media often distorts the truth, but that is another point.

I wanted to post the lyrics to one of my favorite songs by Michael Jackson, Keep the Faith. He was always giving to different charities and making anonymous donations, but of course the media didn't want to portray him as this wonderful human being and one of the greatest humanitarians. Regardless, he kept moving forward with positivity.

I dedicate this entry to those who are struggling everyday, may it be making the ends meet, job hunting, overcoming health problems, and other tough circumstances.

MJ "Keep the Faith"

Hateful Speech On the Internet - Must be Banned!

I've been thinking a lot about how much hate speech has increase on the Internet in the past decade.

Verbal, in-person hateful speech has been regulated and published, but now those same people who used to attack people verbally in person seem to be taking it online.

Case in point, I am astonished when I read about all the racist, sexist comments that are often made about the politicians and celebrities. They may be public figures, which means constructive criticisms about their behaviors and actions are allowed to be verbalized and stated. However, once these comments become personal and downright mean, they are considered hateful speech and can be punished.

Last week, one anonymous coward had the nerve to come up with a Twitter name that says "IHATE(celebrity name, which I won't reveal). I, along with other individuals on Twitter, took it as our responsibility to report this hateful person and had him/her removed from Twitter.

I often like to go under the comments page on several online publications and report hateful speech to the host. It is absolutely unacceptable! These same people that post such mean comments would NEVER have the guts to actually face the people they are talking badly about, let alone say these to their faces.

It's pretty simple: If it's something you wouldn't think of or even dare saying it to the person you are commenting about, don't hide behind your computer and post these comments online. You will be punished by the Internet Police and many anti-hateful speech volunteers such as myself.

Let's spread love, not hate.

What have your experiences been like with hateful speech? Has anyone ever posted anything on Facebook about you that you found insulting? What have you done to fix the problem?

You've Gotta Watch These!

I like watching drama-filled movies. No, I don't mean the type of "drama" that high school kids or drama queens talk about. I am referring to the movies that really make you think about human life and after watching them, you can come out with different perspectives on life and people.

Granted, movies that depict our reality can often be depressing or upsetting. However, when beautifully done, they can also make you be more grateful for the life you have and teach you about how others live, deal with everyday ordeals and show how beautiful/ugly life can be.

Some notable movies I want to recommend are the following:

"The Blind Side"
"Up in the Air"
"Personal Effects"
"Precious"
"Bella"
"The Broken English"
"El Norte"
"Under the Same Moon"
"Closer"
"Shopgirl"

Now to switch the gear a little bit, I absolutely love watching comedy!
Comedy can help lighten people's moods and prove an excellent escape, especially during times like this when people are losing their jobs, homes and feel a sense of anxiety or loss.

I highly recommend the following movies:

"Funny People" (Although this has some sentimental moments, it is pretty funny overall)
"40 Year Old Virgin" (Never gets old!)
"Office Space" (All professionals can relate to this movie in one way or another)
"Legally Blonde"
"I Now Pronounce You Chuck and Larry"
"Baby Mama"
"It's Complicated"
"Something's Gotta Give"
"Chris Rock: Never Scared (2004)"
"Coming to America"

TV Shows (Comedy):

"The Office"
"30 Rock"
"The Simpsons"
"The Family Guy"
"Robot Chicken"

Shows you can get on DVDs:

"Extras" (Everyone who has seen this show by Ricky Gervais says it is the funniest show ever!)
"The Office" (Original Britsh Version)


After a long, hectic week at work, it's time to treat yourself to some quality movies or Laugh-Out-Loud funny movies this weekend while not moving a muscle from your bed/couch!

ENJOY!!! :)

So You Want to Use Twitter But Don't Know How Eh? I'll Tell You!

I've been getting asked a lot of questions about how to use Twitter.

Twitter has started taking off since last year and has gained much popularity thanks to all the people (NERDS! j/k) tweeting away the latest news, trends and sharing ideas and comments.

Initially, when I joined Twitter, I thought it could be used as a job hunting tool. However, I quickly found that it's now the best source of that for professional jobs but more effective if the jobs are more domestic and temporary gigs.

Then, I tried using it as a status updating tool, such as the one Facebook provides. That only lasted about a week... for two reasons. Reason #1: No one's life is that exciting enough to be oversharing every single activity (i.e. "I'm grocery shopping" or "I'm watching XYZ movie"). Reason #2: NO ONE CARES what you are up to every single hour.

After two attempts at trying to use Twitter, I left it alone for a couple of months. Ok, maybe a few months.

Last summer, I had my breakthrough with Twitter! I realized that it could be used to connect with people around the world that share my common interests and taste in music, movies, and all forms of arts. I decided to stick to music since people have their favorite musicians and songs for which they aren't too whimsical with. So I started out narrowing down my favorite musicians (I won't name who they are) and started seeing which ones have strong fan bases on Twitter.

THEN came the passing of the King of Pop (or I would like to call him, King of Music), Michael Jackson. I have always been a big fan of his music and his entire artistry. I also realized he has the strongest fan base in the entire world.

Ever since last summer, I decided to use Twitter to connect with other MJ fans, write about the latest news and simply share my favorite songs, memories and moments with Twitter users.

Granted, it took some time until I started gaining some acknowledgement from other Twitter users, but now, I have a solid number of followers that RT and Reply to my tweets and share my thoughts with others, thus engaging in this huge online community of Michael Jackson around the world. I connect with people in Europe, Asia, South Africa and all over. It's a beautiful thing, indeed.

Some days, I OD on Twitter, but I absolutely love the site and if you know how to use it correctly and effectively, it sure will be one of your favorite sites soon.

Here are the top five tips I can give you that worked for me:

1) Use Twitter not only to share but to LISTEN. You would be amazed at how much information you can obtain from others, and how quickly you get it.

2) Pick a specific area of topic you want to tweet about. This is very important. Having a focused topic is the only way to gain some recognition, get followers and be part of the extensive online community.

3) Be consistent with your tweets. No one wants to follow/connect with others that aren't active and only tweet occasionally.

4) Be responsive to your followers. After all, they are following you to ask you questions and see what you have to say.

5) DO NOT post negative comments of any sort unless they are constructive critiques. Twitter shouldn't be used for your rants. Be smart.


Follow these tips and off you go on Twitter! I will see you there (if you can find me)!

White Collar on USA Network

I have a new favorite show!

White Collar on USA Network. USA Network has smart, witty shows, and I've always enjoyed the shows that put out to the audience. I had all the rave views this particular show got back in October when it premiered, and the buzz is totally worth it!

It's about a con-artist turned FBI consultant, Neal Kaffrey, who helps FBI agents (Peter, especially) find their criminals and solve mysteries, murders and etc. I love how smart the show is and the story lines. All the actors are very solid, and each holds his/her own!

I respect how they picked all the seasoned actors for the show, and the dialogue is witty. I absolutely love this hour-long show every Tuesdays at 10 pm on USA Network.

One thing I must add is that the main character Neal played by Matt Bomer is VERY good-looking. Watching his hot character is worth watching the entire show.

Manners = Can't buy 'em but can sure learn them!

I've been thinking a lot about manners. Just like you can't buy class, I noticed that you can't buy manners either. Some are just naturally well-mannered while others aren't. However, I firmly believe you can teach yourself manners.

I wanted to focus specifically on professional etiquette today. I came across this wonderful article online, and I thought it's especially useful for Gen Y professionals. While it is good to be assertive/aggressive go-getters, it's very important to follow the etiquette when dealing with your professional networks.

7 Professional Etiquette Tips

Next time you are going to professional networking events or simply having business lunches, remember these basic tips. Good manners will take you far, and no one wants to deal with ill-mannered people.

(Mis)Representation of the truth in the media

Today is truly a bittersweet day for all the Michael Jackson fans around the world, and perhaps the one that we all had been waiting for.

Dr. Murray will be charged with involuntary manslaughter in the untimely death of Michael Jackson. There are fans and MJ's family present at the courthouse supporting and showing love for MJ. He may have passed but he lives on in our hearts forever.

I am watching all the media coverage of this, and to be honest, I don't know what to believe. Just as MJ was brutally misrepresented in the 2005 trial, what if it's the same case with this doctor?

I am not saying he isn't guilty. He is. He neglected his one and only patient when timing was key in the case. However, I feel the media is really jumping to all the conclusions when the DA is now finally charging him with this.

As I am watching this unfold, I can't help but feel sad that Michael Jackson is no longer here with us. The doctor will face a trial and I believe justice will prevail. However, would that give us some comfort? Perhaps or perhaps not.

I hope that the media, while covering this, does NOT put Michael Jackson's name down the drain and try to paint him as a drug abuser. This is about a doctor's negligence of his patient, not what Michael Jackson was doing.

For once, I am asking the media to report the truth and facts and nothing but the facts. Please do NOT use this as an opportunity to insult or defame MJ. We will not tolerate that anymore.

"Lies run sprints but the truth runs a marathon" - Michael Jackson -

We will wait patiently for justice to prevail. In the process, however, let's be respectful. We are representing our beloved entertainer/artist and he represented love and peace. Let us represent him in that way.

Inspirational Quotes

You can come across powerful songs that really your heart, and when you listen to those songs, you feel strong, motivated and inspired. Often times, you also find quotes that inspire and awe you. I wanted to take time to share some of the quotes that I keep close to my heart.

"My goal in life is to give what I was lucky enough to receive: the ecstasy of divine union through my music and my dance" - Michael Jackson-

"Lies run sprints, but the truth runs marathons." - Michael Jackson-

"The truth will set you free. But first, it will piss you off" - Gloria Steinem-

"Normal day, let me be ware of the treasure you are. Let me not pass you by in quest of some rare and perfect tomorrow" - Mary Jean Irion -

"Who in the world am I? ah, that's the great puzzle" - Lewis Caroll -

"Well-behaved women rarely make history"

"Courage allows the successful woman to fail - and learn powerful lessons - from the failure- so that in the end- she didn't fail at all" - Maya Angelou

"Silence is the most powerful scream"

"Woman's influence is powerful, especially when she wants something" - Josh Billings -

"The road to success is always under construction" - Unknown -

"Nobody believes the official spokesperson, but everybody trusts an unidentified source." - Ron Nesen -

"Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't" - Erica Jong -

"When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us." - Helen Keller -

"I'm gonna make a change for once in my life. It's gonna feel real good, gonna make a difference, gonna make it right..." - From Michael Jackson's Man in the Mirror -

Let's make a difference today and spread L.O.V.E.!

Michael Jackson's beautiful kids' speech at the Grammys

This year's Grammys was a historical event in many ways, but for me personally, it was historical in that Michael Jackson's (The King of Music) kids, Prince Michael and Paris spoke on behalf of their daddy. His youngest child, Blanket, chose to stay backstage.

It was the first time EVER the whole world heard from Prince. WOW... his stage presence definitely took after his daddy. He spoke eloquently, and thanked God, MJ's fans and showed love for his daddy. I was quite surprised that his voice is so deep. He appeared calm and showed the world that they are doing well.

Paris Jackson looked very cute and is growing up to be a pretty young girl. They both dressed like their daddy, Michael Jackson, and spoke in front of the world. He must be so proud of them. He raised his kids so well. Not only do they know how to handle themselves well, they are also well-mannered, eloquent, mature and show kindness.

That was indeed the best part of the Grammys. Earth Song is one of my all-time favorite songs of Michael Jackson, and it was nice that they chose that particular song to spread the message of love and saving the planet.

Grammys topped other award shows by having Michael Jackson's own children speak and accept the Lifetime Achievement Award on his behalf. That was so wonderful!!

Michael Jackson raised all three of his children from birth and loved them very much. You can tell how much they were loved and how much they continue to be loved by their family. It's beautiful to see that.

As a big, true Michael Jackson fan, I am so thankful that we got to hear from his children tonight, and hope they know that we, MJ fans, will continue to love him unconditionally and carry on his legacy for the generations to come.

I love you, Michael Jackson! You are the greatest musician, artist, entertainment that ever lived in the history of music!!

South Bay Wine Lovers Club = AWESOME!

I went to my very first Meet Up Group around my area tonight, and it was an AMAZING experience.

I joined South Bay Wine Lovers Club several weeks ago on meetup.com because I have really taken a deep interest in learning more about wine and also wanted to meet others that shared this common interest. It sure is awesome meeting people who share your common interests and hobbies, and wine drinking/learning has sure become one of my hobbies/passion.

We had our very first meet-up tonight. Since it was a very first meet-up ever for me, I was nervous yet excited. The group organizer (I am going to leave all the names out here for their privacy) was so warm and welcoming, and right away, I knew I joined the right group.

She had all the wines, wine glasses, cheese, chocolate and menus all laid out neatly on the table, which was simply lovely!

Everyone who showed up was super friendly and just made for pleasant company! We went from fruity (very light white wine) to rich wines. Except the very first one, I savored each one and loved it! In total, we tried 7 different wines and pairng them with the right cheese and chocolate just made the tasting that much exquisite!!

I learned how much I love pairing goat cheese and blue cheese with red wine as well as dark chocolate! Cheese & Wine = priceless!!

I felt so happy tasting these delicious wine while socializing and genuinely enjoying people's company. It was definitely one of the best things to do on a Saturday night for me, personally.

I am looking forward to going to more wine tasting events and definitely being an active participant in this group!

I got so happy from the meet-up that I actually couldn't stop dancing in the car listening to Michael Jackson (duh, who else?)!!

I can't wait for the next meet-up!!!

Are you a wine lover yourself?


Check out the following sites:

*South Bay Wine Lovers Club - meetup.com

*localwineevents.com - for a comprehensive list of all the wine tasting events in your area

*google wine education and you will find educational videos and websites that teach you more about the world of wine


My idea of a wonderful vacation would be spending the whole weekend (or even a week) discovering the wineries around the world and drinking wine while relaxing at the beach or in a beautiful cottage reading a book or enjoying a view while talking with my loved ones.

I can picture it already... :D

Twitter Overload... Like Totally

I overdid it on Twitter yesterday. Yes, you heard me. I ODed on Twitter. How? Well, it's quite simple now that I've experienced it.

As I mentioned, yesterday was the DVD & Blu Ray release of Michael Jackson's This Is It, and the MJ community on Twitter wanted to make it a trending topic. Therefore, I participated and wanted to make sure my followers and whoever was interested were getting all the questions answered and knew about the release.

In an effort to do so, I ended up being on Twitter tweeting about the movie and so forth for close to 5 hours... Yes, 5 whole hours of my day were spent on Twitter. Turns out, it is quite time consuming to respond to every single question your followers ask and also to keep writing new status updates.

I don't think the movie quite made a trending topic because of Haiti and more, but I am so proud of the MJ fan base and community for trying and making sure everyone knew about where to go to find the DVDs and Blu Rays since ever store carried alternate versions.

I am not sure if I would be willing or would want to OD on Twitter, but it sure was one heck of an experience. :)

Michael Jackson's This Is It out today!

Today is THE day MJ fans have been waiting for since October!

Michael Jackson's movie, This Is It, is out on DVD & Blu Ray!!!!!

I got the latest info on where you should get it to maximize your experience:

• Wal-mart - It is the ONLY store to exclusively sell 2 disc Limited Edition of This Is It. It already has the extra footages that a move has PLUS 60 minutes of more footage which means you get close to 3 hours of extra behind-the-scenes!
• Best Buy - If you have a Blu Ray player, this is your best destination to purchase this movie. It has 3 different editions of the movie with each one containing different features.
• AMAZON - If you want to watch the movie plus extra footage (minus the 60 mins but for cheaper), this is where you should go!

Also, if you have a few minutes, check out the Youtube Clip of the Filipino Cebu inmates dancing with THIS IS IT choreographer, Travis Payne, to MJ's Drill & They Don't Care About Us! It's an amazing dance number and a wonderful tribute.

Want to learn the original choreography for Janet & Michael Jackson? Check out Hype Studios! I take the Jackson Power Hour class every week, and it's THE BEST! In fact, we learned the iconic Thriller Zombie dance last night (the one and only, step-by-step) and it's awesome!

THIS IS IT! THIS IS IT! THIS IS IT!

Experiencing a sense of happiness and joy from eating an Eggmuffin from McDonald's

Ever since 2010 started, I've been learning about how little things can bring me so much happiness. Here I thought, for many years, that I was perhaps a superficial L.A. person who only gets happy from shopping and buying nice things, but I've learned a great deal of who I am in the past month alone.

I've learned that little things in life are indeed what make me truly happy.

Here are just some of the examples:

1) Eating a delicious Eggmuffin with a small coffee from McDonald's for breakfast - For just a couple of dollars, I get to experience this taste of heaven. I LOVE their breakfast, and my favorite combo is their strong coffee and Eggmuffin. In fact, I dreamed about it all last night and will go get some right now.

2) Michael Jackson memorabilia - Ok, I understand some of this can be expensive (case in point, MJ Official Opus), but I found some really great Michael Jackson pins, 4 for $5, and I was jumping up and down like a twelve-year old at the store. Also, seeing This Is It and ordering the limited disc edition DVD set were some of my happiest moments.

3) Spending time with my family & my dog - This is given. I realize that I don't need to have fancy dinners or be at the hot spots to truly enjoy the company of my family or friends. I also just love having my dog lie on my lap to take a nap and just spending time with her.

4) Wine Nights with girlfriends - I absolutely love drinking wine while chatting with my close girlfriends. We don't need to impress each other and can talk about anything. Nothing is off topic. It is also a fun, inexpensive way to spend quality time with my true friends.

5) Frugal Shopping/Lifestyle - I have really learned to be frugal. Every dollar counts. There are many people around the world who would be just grateful to have shelter, clothing and food. I don't want to waste anything and while working hard for the money and for what I am passionate, I also want to be frugal and save, save and save.

Ever since I started noticing about how little (and sometimes free) things make me truly happy, I've become a more positive, happy person.

Why don't you make a list of things you are grateful for and also make a list of things that have made you happy or make you happy? You would be surprised :)

Michael Jackson's Movie, This Is It, out Tuesday, 1/26/10

If you are the only person on this earth who have not seen Michael Jackson's This Is It, you now have a chance to see it!

This Is It comes out on DVD tomorrow! If you are a fanatic like myself, you probably pre-ordered yours back in October on Amazon :)

I got even better news! Wal-Mart is exclusively selling special 2 disc limited edition of the movie that includes extra 60 minutes of footage! I found this out while watching the VH1 special of the movie last Saturday. If you want to get your hands on this special edition disc, get on Walmart's website since supplies are limited.

I already got mine and had to cancel my order on the other site since I want to get the most extra footage available out there, and this one sells exclusively at Wal-Mart. Now, I have very strong personal feelings against that retail giant, but I have to admit, it's really nice how much exclusive stuff they have sometimes for certain things.

If you are in NY, go to the Union Station Best Buy to meet Kenny Ortega and Travis Payne!
If you are in LA, go to the Culver City Best Buy to meet the dancers and do the drill with them after an early screening of the movie!

I've seen the movie 10 times so far, and I love it each time!

Also, if you haven't already, please go to your nearest Target and pick you up free 3D glasses for the Sunday's telecast of the Grammys MJ Tribute!

This week is starting out fantastic, isn't it? :)

HAPPY FRIDAY!!

Happy Friday!

It's still raining on this wonderful Friday in Southern California.
I thought this would be a great song on a day like this.
Please check out Michael Jackson's "Cry" song on Youtube or Amazon MP3!!

Cry Music Video

Michael Jackson Exhibit in London Extended!!

This is for all the lovely Michael Jackson fans out there!

If you are like me, you were probably bummed that the official exhibit was going to end at the end of this month. Worry no more! You still have time to check out the exhibit as it was announced this morning that the exhibit will be extended to February 28th due to its popularity.

This exhibit is currently happening at O2 Bubble in London and features hundreds of personal items that beloged to Michael Jackson including his costumes for the This Is It Tour.

I am definitely thinking about planning my trip to London next month!! I am not sure if this exhibit will happen anywhere else so I really want to catch it before it disappears.

If you want more information, please check out www.michaeljackson.com

POURING in Southern California

WOW!!! Can you believe this weather?

My friends are saying it is due to global warming, but whatever may be the case, this rain is unbelievable.

Yesterday, there was even a tornado warning in Orange County. If you want to see some pictures, check out www.ocregister.com for some amazing shots of this rain and its effects on several cities in South Orange County. I saw some cars upside down and trees completely knocked down.

I don't think So Cal residents are well-prepared for such bad weather because we expect our days to be sunny 24/7 (well, most of us anyways).

In fact, I am seeing more events being cancelled or postponed due to this bad weather. If you live in East Coast, you may think we are overreacting, but LA drivers do NOT drive well in the rain, and it simply is best to stay indoor while it's pouring outside.

I am grateful that I get to work from home today typing away on my laptop while many others are braving the rain and getting drenched.

Regardless, my passion for dancing is unwavering so I will be braving the rain tonight and going to my weekly Jackson dance classes to learn new MJ or Janet Jackson choreography.

Let me ask you now: What are some activities that you would NOT give up despite this bad weather?

A&E - The Jacksons: A Family Dynasty

I absolutely love the new reality series on A&E: The Jacksons - A Family Dynasty.

Last night was the finale of the six episode series on A&E, and I can't get enough! In fact, I will definitely get the DVD set when it comes out.

I am a huge Michael Jackson fan, as everyone already knows. I am also a big fan of the whole Jackson family. I admire how much talent one family has. From Jackie Jackson to Michael and Janet, it's just astounding!!

I wanted to learn more about the other members of the Jackson 5, and the show did just that! My favorite has to be Jackie Jackson because he seems to have the calmness and the aura that really seems to keep everyone together and in check.

I love them all for their unique talents and very distinctive personalities!

I highly recommend you check this show out on A&E's website!! Watching the brothers quarrel (as all siblings do, I suppose, out of love) to them really going through and dealing with the death of MJ and them showcasing their talents, it's pure entertainment and one heck of a show!

Responsiveness

I wanted to take a brief moment to write about the importance of responsiveness when it comes to family, friends, acquaintances and just about anyone you connect with.

I take great pride in responding immediately to calls, texts and emails. I admit, I probably respond much quicker by text and email rather than phone calls because it's easier to do so if I am in the middle of something at the moment. Unless I am driving or am not near the phone, I will respond to you.

However, I am noticing that more and more people aren't responding to others right away. Granted, people are busy. I know you probably have countless reasons that you can use as excuses as to why you don't respond to people's emails, texts and phone calls, but I absolutely have to disagree that it's because you are busy. It's for two simple reasons:

1) You are too lazy - Let's face it. With all the advanced, convenient technology that surrounds us, can you really say you don't have time? I don't think so. You can access your email, text and pretty much anything at the palm of your hand. You can respond to people while you are getting your coffee, walking in the hallway and anywhere, except when you are driving, of course. Surely, you can write one or two liners during commercial breaks while you are watching your favorite TV shows.

2) You don't want to - We live in a free country. I respect that. But don't you think it's disrespectful for you to not respond to someone who bothered to contact you, taking time out of their own busy schedules?

With almost a month into 2010, let's make an effort to be more responsive to people around us.

Perhaps you don't realize what impact you may/can make by simply responding to people's emails, texts and phone calls.

Common courtesy, people. It's not rocket science.

CONAN O'BRIEN- A Real Class Act!!

I went to the taping of The Tonight Show with Conan O'Brien today. What a coincidence that I happened to go to the taping on the day he made a major announcement.

I want to start it off by saying that I have so much respect and admiration for Conan. He has been with the network for 17 years and has been doing a superb job. He is highly educated (hello, Harvard!), is truly funny, and I absolutely respect how he does not offend or take jabs at people personally. He is a class act in the industry that is often full of backstabbers and scums.

He was so entertaining and was absolutely cordial with the audience. I am sure he isn't happy about the whole situation. I know what it feels like to be promised something and later be told that it isn't the right fit or that it just isn't what they initially said/stated/sold. IT REALLY SUCKS!!

I really hope that NBC comes to its senses and realizes that Jay Leno's time was up the moment his show folded last year and the baton was passed to Conan O'Brien.

They need to let Conan keep The Tonight Show because people absolutely adore him, and it truly is nice to have a classy host once again after Johnny Carson :)

Please show your support for Conan O'Brien. Let's not make false promises to good people like him and give him a chance to bring real class back to The Tonight Show.

Please follow teamconan on Twitter!!

Check out these women-empowerment songs!

We can't help but worry and fret about things in life sometimes. Life gets you down, and we're bound to experience some bumpy roads. It's nice to know that your family and friends love you and support you no matter what. Depending on your personality though, you may not want to talk to anyone about your problems and gain strength through music. This one is for you!

I wanted to list some of the songs I found that often give me extra courage and strength when I am feeling down or when I just need that pick-me-up music.

10 women-empowering songs:

1. Jennifer Hudson - I Am Changing
2. Beyonce - Listen
3. Whitney Houston - Greatest Love of All
4. Whitney Houston - I Didn't Know My Own Strength
5. Alicia Keys - Superwoman
6. Christina Aguilera - The Voice Within
7. Destiny's Child - Survivor
8. Christina Aguilera - Fighter
9. Mary J. Blige - No More Drama
10. Alicia Keys - Sure Looks Good to Me


And if you really feel like screaming out to the world about who you are, listen to Michael Jackson's Wanna be Starting Something:

"Lift your head up high, scream out to the world. I know I am someone and let the truth unfurl. No one can hurt you now because you know what's true. Yes, I believe in me so you believe in you."

ENJOY!

Lady Gaga

I finally understand what the whole fuss is about regarding Lady Gaga!

At my friend's suggestion, I've bought some of her hit songs including "Paparazzi" and "Bad Romance", and wow, she is one talented entertainer!

She not only can sing but can also dance and write great songs! It's nice to know that we still have talented pop stars such as Lady Gaga in the music industry!

Check out Amzon's MP3 songs of Lady Gaga, and let me know what you think!

The Good Wife on CBS

I've become a fan of the new CBS Drama, The Good Wife.

I admit, when I watched the first episode, I thought it was a cheap imitation of the whole Spitzer scandal, but boy was I wrong!

It actually chronicles one woman's strong journey as she copes with the scandal and the downfall of her husband, the former State Attorney of Chicago. She holds her head up high, supports her children as well as her husband while making a name for herself as an attorney.

Last night's episode really highlighted the negative (though sometimes positive, I suppose) effects of the media, especially concerning the "commentators" and so called "experts" when it comes to important trials.

I highly recommend you check out this show on CBS. This is really for all the strong, independent, career-women out there as well as family-women!

I AM BACK!

WOW!!! I am finally back to writing for my blog!!

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!!!!

2010 will be an awesome year indeed!!

Here's what you can expect from my blog this year:

* more up-to-date stories on all the latest trends and fashion!

* human interest stories - I am adding this to my blog as I think hearing about people's stories really inspire and teach us to be better human beings.

* career advice/stories especially aimed for young professionals - as if we don't get enough, right? :)

* music - I love all kinds of music, and I will tell you what songs you must be listening to!

* and finally, just about everything else that I, Angela, am crazy about!

Let's get started!!!